1. Ask for an open relationship.
There is nothing more embarrassing than thinking you have finally settled down with a guy who wants to settle down with you as well, and then having him ask you two or three months after proposing to you if "we" could have an open relationship.
2. Constantly let her down.
If you are going to commit to someone, and expect them to stay. Don't constantly let them down left and right. If you say you are going to do something, then do it.
3. Tell her sweet things you thought of doing, but didn't.
Nothing bugs me more than having a guy tell me that he was thinking of buying me roses, but didn't. Or that he thought of coming to see my for lunch, but stayed home instead.
4. Text other girls. From a cell phone you both share.
I don't know if it is just me, but I don't like going into my text message application to text one of my friends and seeing something along the lines of "Jane doe: Do I get to see you later tonight?;]" or perhaps "Fiance: I'm horny, but my girl's asleep"
5. If you live together, be gone all the time.
Even if a living situation is shitty, and you perhaps live with more people than just your significant other, and one of them just so happens to bug the hell out of you, don't be gone all the time. It makes your significant other feel unwanted and a piece of shit.
6. Tell her about a ring you placed on another girl's finger.
Especially if that ring just so happens to be significantly larger and better looking than the one you placed on your current girl's finger.
7. Be hypocritical.
If there is something you don't want your girl doing, chances are, she doesn't want you doing the same thing either.
8. Tell your girl that if you weren't together, then "oh hell yeah" you would bang her best friend.
Seriously? The only thing that comment is going to do is cause her to be insecure, have a lack of trust, and I guarantee you won't ever be seeing her best friend again.
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